Lessons from the Library, or, Volunteers Don’t Need Prozac

February 18th, 2010

by Tracey E. Bennett, Queen of Conversation


Volunteering at my local library makes me feel good! Wish I’d signed up years ago when I was depressed. Science says my mood uplift comes from a boost in serotonin. I call it a natural high.

I LOVE feeling useful. I’m a mostly cheery person, but sorting book and magazine donations boosts my spirits even higher. Rummaging through the donation bin is like Read the rest of this entry »

The Most Romantic Movie You Never Heard of

February 14th, 2010

Blog by  Tracey E. Bennett, Queen of Conversation

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Remember Ravel’s Bolero from the movie "10"? This video is its visual equivalent. It’ll make you want to grab your honey and KISS! Or dance, maybe in the sheets. The music’s great, too.

OK, turn down the lights, turn up the volume, and bring on the most romantic movie you never heard of.

What are your favorite romantic movies? My top one is American President. Remember when Annette Benning came out of Michael Douglas’s bathroom wearing only his white shirt? Hot! Hot! HOT! Santa brought me a shirt just like it (warm, warm, warm!)

Today’s paper nominates these must-see romantic movies: 

  1. Shakespeare in Love Read the rest of this entry »

Calling Customer Service: How to Get a Person on the Phone

February 4th, 2010

 

blog by Tracey E. Bennett

You’re calling customer service. But you land in a maze — or daze. How do you get a person on the phone? You could get your problem handled in a jiffy if only someone would talk to you.

Here are 8 tips adapted from Reader’s Digest:

1. Don’t push any buttons. The computer will assume that you have a rotary phone and send you to a real person.

2. Push zero. Sometimes that sends you to a helpful soul.

3. Press a mess of buttons.

4. Mumble. It confuses the system and Read the rest of this entry »

Good Valentine’s Day Books and Relationship Books

January 30th, 2010

by Tracey E. Bennett

Here’s a list of good Valentine’s Day and relationship books. Two of my very favorite relationship books are:

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate – by Gary Chapman. You you only buy one relationship book ever, this is the one to get. It changed Read the rest of this entry »

How to Split the Check Without Looking Cheap

January 18th, 2010

"SAVE!"

Have you ever gone to dinner with friends and ordered only a drink or appetizer? But when the bill came around, you got stuck with a chunk of it? How do you pay your fair share — that is, for your smaller portion — without looking or feeling cheap?

Here’s a tip from Ramit from Scrooge Strategy. He’s all about saving money, and he’s got a good tip about saving face, too. Read the rest of this entry »

Can You Top This Inspirational YouTube Video?

January 15th, 2010

Singer Susan Boyle was the most-watched YouTube video in 2009. This video about a dog that failed at her first "job" gets my vote for super inspiration. After months of training, Ricochet wasn’t suited for being a service dog ("Birds!? WOOF! WOOF!"), but she excelled at something else. 

I wonder if there’s a moral in here for us humans, such as chasing birds could cost you your job.

See what you think.

 

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 Blog by  Tracey E. Bennett, Queen of Conversation

I welcome your comments. Tell me, what’s your favorite YouTube video? And feel free to have fun with the moral.

Screw New Year’s Resolutions. Do This Instead.

January 4th, 2010

Every year I make the same New Year’s resolution, which is not to make any resolutions. I blow them by February anyway. Here’s an idea for the new year that doesn’t leave me feeling bad about myself.

    I pick a word for the year.

It’s a guiding star, kind of a Star of Bethlehem for the wise person I aspire to be. 

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New Year’s Party Conversation Questions

December 30th, 2009
Happy New Year

Here are some New Year’s conversation questions to start conversations and keep them going.

 

If you’re staying home and keeping the dog company, it’s the perfect time to assess where you’ve been and to chart your course for the new year.

 

Delta Flight Attendant + Crayons = Connection & Conversation

December 27th, 2009

What does it take to calm an irritated customer, connect people, start conversations, and build relationships? What could do all that? As this story shows, it just takes one person thinking outside the Crayon box.

PALM SPRINGS, Calif. –  AP – A museum is showing artwork collected by a Delta flight attendant who started handing out crayons to passengers after the Sept. 11th attacks.

The Palm Springs Air Museum is showing "Plane Art — Connecting People" through Jan. 25. Several dozen pictures are hanging at the museum, and many others are available for visitors to leaf through in folders.
 
The pictures were collected by Delta flight attendant Jewel Van Valin. She got the idea a few months after 9/11, when the airline began substituting paper for linens as tray table covers.
 

She said one passenger Read the rest of this entry »

Kids Say the Darndest Things About the Bible

December 12th, 2009

Kids crack me up!  See if you agree. 

  • In the first book of the Bible, Guinessis, God got tired of creating the world, so He took the Sabbath off.  
  • Adam and Eve were created from an apple tree.
  • Noah’s wife was called Joan of Ark. 
  • Noah built an ark, which the animals came on to in pears. 
  • Lot’s wife was a pillar of salt by day, but Read the rest of this entry »