Does your first impression measure up at home? When your loved ones step in the door, do you stop what you’re doing and greet them? Do you make them feel important and valued?
Remember Ravel’s Bolero from the movie "10"? This video is its visual equivalent. It’ll make you want to grab your honey and KISS! Or dance, maybe in the sheets. The music’s great, too.
OK, turn down the lights, turn up the volume, and bring on the most romantic movie you never heard of.
What are your favorite romantic movies? My top one is American President. Remember when Annette Benning came out of Michael Douglas’s bathroom wearing only his white shirt? Hot! Hot! HOT! Santa brought me a shirt just like it (warm, warm, warm!)
Today’s paper nominates these must-see romantic movies:
50 women are running for office. They all want to be your representative in the state capital. Who would you vote for? How do you decide who gets your vote?
I got a dose of 50 first impressions yesterday by volunteering at the Ready to Run training for women who are considering running for office in Hawaii. One by one they approached our check-in table.
23 were nicely dressed; 9 looked the legislator part already
5 stated her name clearly without being prompted
6 spelled her name without being asked
11 smiled
8 were enthusiastic and energetic
5 seemed to "own the space"; they seemed powerful
5 made excellent eye contact
7 walked purposefully to our table
1 asked our names
1 couldn’t get elected dog catcher
These women didn’t have to say a word. Just by showing up, they communicated a lot about themselves. Politics aside, they made an impression that got — or didn’t get — my vote on a personal level.
And then I got to thinking….Aren’t we all running for some kind of office all the time? Maybe it’s not an elected office; it could be an appointed or chosen office such as trusted advisor or cherished colleague. Maybe it’s Ms./Mr. Right or Ms./Mr. Right Now.
Here’s a conversation topic in keeping with Mother’s Day:
Can teen mother Bristol Palin (whose mom is governor of Alaska), teach abstinence?
The folks who brought you National Teen Pregnancy Awareness Day thought so because they made Bristol their poster child, er, poster mom. She said, "Regardless of what I did personally, I just think that abstinence is the only way you can effectively, 100 percent foolproof way, you can prevent pregnancy."
She’s frumpy. She’s spinsterish. She’s 47 and never been kissed.
And when she walked on the stage of Britain’s Got Talent show, Simon Cowell smirked. So did the audience. When she said, "I want to sing like [Broadway star] Elaine Paige," you could practically hear everybody thinking, "Fat, frumpy chance, Sister!" (more…)
Romantic Valentine’s Day date ideas don’t have to bust your budget. Here’s a recipe for cooking up a memorable occasion with a few simple and cheap ingredients. Dazzle your sweetie with a feast of sensory delights. The most important one—good conversation—is free.
If you want romance, connection and closeness on this most romantic of days, listen up! Valentine’s Day is the most important date day of the year. And that’s not just Hallmark speaking. Your sweetie believes it, too. You want to score points and stay out of the penalty box. So play hard and fair, and stay away from the 5 big mistakes. They include 1) not planning until the last minute, 2) choosing a gift that sends the wrong message, 3) buying the wrong clothing size, and 4) blowing the chance for true intimacy.
Here are 6 more mistakes that will land you in the Valentine’s Day dog house. They include 1) assuming a romantic Valentine’s Day is all about sex and 2) forgetting the principle that even meatloaf seems special in candlelight. Discover how to squeeze more romance out of your Valentine’s Day date.